My Daily Teaching today was:
If you want to attract appreciation for what you do, then move through your life appreciating and complimenting others. If you find fault with another, then you just brought others finding fault with you. If you judge another, then you just brought judgement to you. And if you appreciate others, you will bring appreciation to you. You have to make the quality dominant in you first, before you can attract it in your outside world.
Wow! I read this and thought, this is so true. I can read people very well. If I hear someone always having issues and complaining, they always seem to have more issues and more to complain about. And, they never seem to be very appreciative of the good that they do have in their life. Do they? Maybe if they would concentrate on the things they have to appreciate, the things they have to complain about will start going away?
In my own life I have stopped complaining about people on the road. I have started to appreciate and become more aware of the nice drivers who allow you to go in front of them or actually do use a turn signal. I have been thankful every time I do not have to wait too long to pull out onto a busy street. I started appreciating all that I saw good out on the road. Guess what? I cannot tell you the last time I had to wait to pull onto Main Street (unless I am with my husband). It has been clear for me for months now. I cannot tell you the last time I got in back of someone who didn't use their turn signal. I also do not remember the last time I had to park more than 5 spots away from the store. The other thing I see in myself is that when I get behind someone who is driving slowly, it doesn't bother me. Now my thoughts are: "There is a reason why this car is in front of me going slowly right now. Could it be to save me from getting hit by another vehicle, or hitting a child crossing the road? Could it be because ahead there are deer crossing the street?" I no longer allow slow people to get me angry because God and the universe have a reason for EVERYTHING. There are reasons we get stuck behind people like this. And, if we get angry and pass judgement on people, we will bring more people to judge us. We will have more people angry at us.
So my words of wisdom when you get behind a slow person is....deep breath...say Goosfraba, and realize that this person could be protecting you from danger ahead. (Chances are you were already on the path to being late because you were rushing through your morning routine.) And if you want to stop getting angry, start appreciating. Like me, you will notice a big difference in the way your life starts to go. The driving is only one example of the amazing things you can do to change your life and go down a positive path. Happy trails!
Today I am thankful for:
Angels on the road
patience
appreciation
happiness
Jamie
Jenny
my van
sleep
goosfraba
compliments
positivity
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
Beliefs vs. Truth
Playing the Memory on The Secret and this is the quote I got...
'Human beings are made up of two things; their beliefs and the truth. When you let go of your beliefs, you will see more of the truth. The greatest human beings who have ever lived, had the courage to let go of beliefs, and they became the truth. They showed us the way.'
Of course what we grow up believing is what we are raised to believe. Basically it is our parents beliefs because we are too young to know any different. Now that I am older and have let a lot of my beliefs go, I am learning the truth about life and who I really am. I think it is absolutely necessary to be open minded as we go through life. If we are stuck in our beliefs, how do we grow and allow ourselves to find truth? I think this quote was a very good one for everyone to read. I know so many closed minded people who seem stuck in situations that they cannot seem to get out of. So many of them cannot get their beliefs go to see another possibility. Open your mind and your heart....and you will see there are a lot of possibilities out there.
I am thankful for:
endless possibilities
an open mind
creativity
my full class tonight
salt (in which I will use to kill the slugs once this rain stops)
Melinda (her positivity is awesome!)
Jenny (for being so smart and funny!)
Diane
my store
finding the truth
'Human beings are made up of two things; their beliefs and the truth. When you let go of your beliefs, you will see more of the truth. The greatest human beings who have ever lived, had the courage to let go of beliefs, and they became the truth. They showed us the way.'
Of course what we grow up believing is what we are raised to believe. Basically it is our parents beliefs because we are too young to know any different. Now that I am older and have let a lot of my beliefs go, I am learning the truth about life and who I really am. I think it is absolutely necessary to be open minded as we go through life. If we are stuck in our beliefs, how do we grow and allow ourselves to find truth? I think this quote was a very good one for everyone to read. I know so many closed minded people who seem stuck in situations that they cannot seem to get out of. So many of them cannot get their beliefs go to see another possibility. Open your mind and your heart....and you will see there are a lot of possibilities out there.
I am thankful for:
endless possibilities
an open mind
creativity
my full class tonight
salt (in which I will use to kill the slugs once this rain stops)
Melinda (her positivity is awesome!)
Jenny (for being so smart and funny!)
Diane
my store
finding the truth
Saturday, May 2, 2009
Patience, Thoughtfulness and a Goosfraba Moment
Driving to the post office this morning before work, I drove past the church that is on my street. There were a lot of cars parked there today I thought....then I remembered.....
Today was the funeral for baby Shane. Shane is the baby I have blogged about recently. Shane lived to be one month and 4 days old. At first, I got the lump in my throat and the tears in my eyes. Then, I remembered how positive his mother has been through this entire situation. Her written obituary that she emailed out just amazed me. She has got to be one of the strongest people I have ever met. She knows that she will be with Shane again and keeps that in her mind. Although there were endless tears, she always sounded strong, knowing that there is a light at the end of this tunnel. She is a very big inspiration to everyone around her.
I have seen many good and bad things throughout my life. I have come to the conclusion that we are meant to go through some trying times and we are meant to have those amazing moments too. It is how we choose to deal with the bad that allows us to either move on or stay stuck in a depression or a rut. This particular situation makes me realize that there are people out there that have such horrible situations going on. And, it makes me thankful for the life that I have. Now I have to ask myself, do I really need to get angry at the guy who chooses not to use his turn signal? Do I really need to get upset if there is no milk in the fridge? Do I have to let the fact that I only got 3 hours of sleep affect my entire day? My answers are "No" to all of that. It isn't worth letting the little things ruin your day when things could be so much worse.
I got to the post office and there were four people ahead of me, two which were sending out about 25 large boxes to Iraq. After about 5 minutes, two of the people in front of me got angry for having to wait and they left. What was going on in my mind is, "Ok, so you may be a little late for your day today...but do you really need to leave huffing and puffing?" The ones that were holding up the line were the ones sending out all of the boxes. I started a conversation with them about Iraq and how awesome I thought it was that they were doing this. The line behind me was about 7 people long. I wondered if the two that used to be in front of me even knew the nice thing that these people were doing...or if they would even care. Then I pictured the line of cars at the church waiting for Shane's funeral. All I could think of is, someone is burying their baby today and you are getting angry for having to stand in a line. What happened to people's patience? Why is EVERYONE in such a hurry? When it was my turn the couple walked out the door thanking everyone for their patience. I seriously do not know if they even knew that the two behind them left in a huff. Why has life gotten so crazy? What makes anyone think that they are more important than everyone else? Are we not supposed to be equal in God's world?
I sent out my stuff and left..still smiling although I was annoyed. Those two ahead of me needed a big GOOSFRABA moment. To me, life is what we make of it. I try to see the good in everything. It is a shame that people ruin their lives rushing everywhere, being angry over stupid things, and being so inconsiderate. Thankfully I do not run into too many people like that or I would be SCREAMING GOOSFRABA not caring what anyone thought. However, someone may have me arrested for being a crazy lady...LOL!
What I am thankful for today:
the movie Anger Management
Goosfraba
patience
finding the good in every situation
knowing that I have a good life
the farmers market tomorrow
my overabundance of time
considerate people
giving people
thoughtful people
my PartyLite starter show closing today!
my free PartyLite products
my PartyLite paycheck!
my friends
my family
a good night tonight
Crossroads Pizza
Jenny for going with me to Crossroads after our awesome walk!
Toasted Almonds (I only had one!)
A great day tomorrow!!
Today was the funeral for baby Shane. Shane is the baby I have blogged about recently. Shane lived to be one month and 4 days old. At first, I got the lump in my throat and the tears in my eyes. Then, I remembered how positive his mother has been through this entire situation. Her written obituary that she emailed out just amazed me. She has got to be one of the strongest people I have ever met. She knows that she will be with Shane again and keeps that in her mind. Although there were endless tears, she always sounded strong, knowing that there is a light at the end of this tunnel. She is a very big inspiration to everyone around her.
I have seen many good and bad things throughout my life. I have come to the conclusion that we are meant to go through some trying times and we are meant to have those amazing moments too. It is how we choose to deal with the bad that allows us to either move on or stay stuck in a depression or a rut. This particular situation makes me realize that there are people out there that have such horrible situations going on. And, it makes me thankful for the life that I have. Now I have to ask myself, do I really need to get angry at the guy who chooses not to use his turn signal? Do I really need to get upset if there is no milk in the fridge? Do I have to let the fact that I only got 3 hours of sleep affect my entire day? My answers are "No" to all of that. It isn't worth letting the little things ruin your day when things could be so much worse.
I got to the post office and there were four people ahead of me, two which were sending out about 25 large boxes to Iraq. After about 5 minutes, two of the people in front of me got angry for having to wait and they left. What was going on in my mind is, "Ok, so you may be a little late for your day today...but do you really need to leave huffing and puffing?" The ones that were holding up the line were the ones sending out all of the boxes. I started a conversation with them about Iraq and how awesome I thought it was that they were doing this. The line behind me was about 7 people long. I wondered if the two that used to be in front of me even knew the nice thing that these people were doing...or if they would even care. Then I pictured the line of cars at the church waiting for Shane's funeral. All I could think of is, someone is burying their baby today and you are getting angry for having to stand in a line. What happened to people's patience? Why is EVERYONE in such a hurry? When it was my turn the couple walked out the door thanking everyone for their patience. I seriously do not know if they even knew that the two behind them left in a huff. Why has life gotten so crazy? What makes anyone think that they are more important than everyone else? Are we not supposed to be equal in God's world?
I sent out my stuff and left..still smiling although I was annoyed. Those two ahead of me needed a big GOOSFRABA moment. To me, life is what we make of it. I try to see the good in everything. It is a shame that people ruin their lives rushing everywhere, being angry over stupid things, and being so inconsiderate. Thankfully I do not run into too many people like that or I would be SCREAMING GOOSFRABA not caring what anyone thought. However, someone may have me arrested for being a crazy lady...LOL!
What I am thankful for today:
the movie Anger Management
Goosfraba
patience
finding the good in every situation
knowing that I have a good life
the farmers market tomorrow
my overabundance of time
considerate people
giving people
thoughtful people
my PartyLite starter show closing today!
my free PartyLite products
my PartyLite paycheck!
my friends
my family
a good night tonight
Crossroads Pizza
Jenny for going with me to Crossroads after our awesome walk!
Toasted Almonds (I only had one!)
A great day tomorrow!!
Friday, May 1, 2009
If Today Was Your Last Day
I have been listening to this song now over and over again. I absolutely love the words. Instead of blogging much today, I feel that this songs says a lot of how I am feeling and a lot of what I believe. I hope it becomes an inspiration to you as much as it has for me. The song is called If Today Was Your Last Day by Nickelback.
My best friend gave me the best advice
He said each day’s a gift and not a given right
Leave no stone unturned, leave your fears behind
And try to take the path less traveled by
That first step you take is the longest stride
If today was your last day
and tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
If today was your last day
Against the grain should be a way of life
What’s worth the prize is always worth the fight
Every second counts ’cause there’s no second try
So live like you’ll never live it twice
Don’t take the free ride in your own life
If today was your last day
and tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
Would you call old friends you never see?
Reminisce of memories
Would you forgive your enemies?
Would you find that one you’re dreamin’ of?
Swear up and down to God above
That you finally fall in love
If today was your last day
If today was your last day
Would you make your mark by mending a broken heart?
You know it’s never too late to shoot for the stars
Regardless of who you are
So do whatever it takes
‘Cause you can’t rewind a moment in this life
Let nothin’ stand in your way
Cause the hands of time are never on your side
If today was your last day
and tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
Would you call old friends you never see?
Reminisce of memories
Would you forgive your enemies?
Would you find that one you’re dreamin’ of?
Swear up and down to God above
That you finally fall in love
If today was your last day
Today I am thankful for:
This song
going to the Nickelback concert in July!! WHOO HOOO!
taking Bryce to school today
the Hellertown Farmer's Market this Sunday
National Scrapbook day tomorrow
for the courage to live each day as if it was my last
the warmer weather today
getting the gum out of Makenna's hair (Goosfraba!)
Marryann for helping me on Sunday
Diane for watching my store on Sunday
Mom for taking Makenna to Faith's Birthday party tonight
Dad for allowing me to borrow his tent
my jeans fitting better....size 6, here I come!
eating healthier
drinking more water
walking with Jenny
PartyLite
blueberries
people who inspire me
songs that inspire me
my new customers
a good day today
a great nights sleep tonight
My best friend gave me the best advice
He said each day’s a gift and not a given right
Leave no stone unturned, leave your fears behind
And try to take the path less traveled by
That first step you take is the longest stride
If today was your last day
and tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
If today was your last day
Against the grain should be a way of life
What’s worth the prize is always worth the fight
Every second counts ’cause there’s no second try
So live like you’ll never live it twice
Don’t take the free ride in your own life
If today was your last day
and tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
Would you call old friends you never see?
Reminisce of memories
Would you forgive your enemies?
Would you find that one you’re dreamin’ of?
Swear up and down to God above
That you finally fall in love
If today was your last day
If today was your last day
Would you make your mark by mending a broken heart?
You know it’s never too late to shoot for the stars
Regardless of who you are
So do whatever it takes
‘Cause you can’t rewind a moment in this life
Let nothin’ stand in your way
Cause the hands of time are never on your side
If today was your last day
and tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
Would you call old friends you never see?
Reminisce of memories
Would you forgive your enemies?
Would you find that one you’re dreamin’ of?
Swear up and down to God above
That you finally fall in love
If today was your last day
Today I am thankful for:
This song
going to the Nickelback concert in July!! WHOO HOOO!
taking Bryce to school today
the Hellertown Farmer's Market this Sunday
National Scrapbook day tomorrow
for the courage to live each day as if it was my last
the warmer weather today
getting the gum out of Makenna's hair (Goosfraba!)
Marryann for helping me on Sunday
Diane for watching my store on Sunday
Mom for taking Makenna to Faith's Birthday party tonight
Dad for allowing me to borrow his tent
my jeans fitting better....size 6, here I come!
eating healthier
drinking more water
walking with Jenny
PartyLite
blueberries
people who inspire me
songs that inspire me
my new customers
a good day today
a great nights sleep tonight
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